new year's and recent activities

So, I drove down to Georgia for new year's. I took a friend with me (I'm not dumb, after all). I went to meet in person a dominant man I met online.

He was nothing like I expected. I mean, physically he was. It wasn't exciting or disappointing, it just was what it was. But mentally, emotionally, intellectually, dominantly (is that a word?) there was just something lacking.
And I didn't feel that certain spark that I need, that magic.
First of all, he was kind of wimpy to be a dominant man. He was very respectful though, and a gentleman. Also, he was kind of whiny. And bossy. Which, i know that sounds contradicting, but this was only the first time we met. You have to take baby steps and build up the relationship to the level you want. It was like he just wanted to go from point A to point F without going through b-e. I kind of felt bad for feeling this way, but that's just the way it was.
It took me about a day after I got home to realize that I felt this way.
He was way too intense for me all at once.
Also, he seemed to be very clingy and I don't like that,e specially in public (with anyone).

So my friend and I left a day early to go see this band play in SC, but we got to the place, pulled in and didn't even go inside. It was a scary looking place. We decided to head back to NC for new years and I got a little toasted and made out with my gay friend on new year's eve. It was lovely.

In other news, I've been working all the time and breaking even, which is better than coming up in the negative I suppose.

Well, tootles.

KC